What are you doing for your familyâ€™s summer vacation? Shirley Phelps-Roper decided to take her two daughters to New York City from Topeka, Kansas. To protest outside Walter Cronkiteâ€™s funeral yesterday. They even had a fancy sign made up that said â€œCronkite in Hell.â€
â€œHeâ€™s in hell right now,â€ eagerly explains 23-year-old Megan, as mourners entered St. Bartholomewâ€™s Church across Park Avenue. Her mom told me that Cronkite â€œhad a platform to influence people in the right direction and he failed to do that. He chose to worship the flag and not God.â€ Also, he was a â€œfag-lover.â€ It says it right there on their press release: â€œWe protest all this holy Cronkite worship. He was no hero to God. On his Cronkite Watch, America was surrendered to the fag-agenda. Ergo, Cronkite is now in Hell. And thatâ€™s the way it is. God hates Cronkite. â€œ
The youngest daughter there, 16-year old Grace-Elizabeth, sports a navy blue â€œPriests Rape Boysâ€ T-shirt and shuffled around on an Israeli flag.
The Phelps-Ropers are the founding family behind the Westboro Baptist Church. You might have heard of their practice of protesting at soldierâ€™s funerals, where signs range from â€œGod Hates Fagsâ€ to â€œGod Hates Americaâ€â€”apparently because we donâ€™t hate quite enough for Westboroâ€™s tastes. Not surprisingly, their clique is designated a hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center and other organizations. But they see themselves as a something of a tough-love organization. Theyâ€™re on a family trip to spread the word of a vengeful God. â€œOur only message is love God and heâ€™ll bless you,â€ says Shirley. â€œDisobey God and heâ€™ll destroy you.â€
They begin their New York trip with a protest outside the Jewish Community Center on the Upper West Side, cordoned off in a little family-size protest pen, flanked by cops while they brandished signs saying â€œJews stole the land,â€ â€œIsrael is doomedâ€ and â€œAmerica is doomed.â€ The youngest daughter there, 16-year old Grace-Elizabeth, sports a navy blue â€œPriests Rape Boysâ€ T-shirt and shuffled around on an Israeli flag. Despite that, she seems uncomfortable while her mother screams beside her. I ask Grace if she wanted to be there. â€œOh yes, this is fun,â€ she gushes. â€œItâ€™s the best thing we could be doing with our time.â€
I asked her sister Meganâ€”who just graduated from Washburn University this springâ€”what she thought of President Obama. Her eyes lit up. â€œOh, heâ€™s the Antichrist,â€ she says.
I ask for a little more explanation. â€œWell, heâ€™s against Christ,â€ she says. Then mom swoops in, talking Deuteronomy and Paulâ€™s second letter to the Thessalonians before veering inevitably to abortion. â€œReproductive freedom is a fluffy term for killing babies,â€ Shirley says. â€œObama would support the murder of his grandchildren.â€
Speaking of grandchildren, Megan and Grace are the grandkids of Fred Phelpsâ€”a Kansas attorney who started their church. They spoke of him prideful tones as a pioneering civil-rights lawyer who just happened to spawn a family of lawyers who are now dedicated to trying to deny civil rights to gays and lesbians. Apparently, a family that hates together stays together. When youâ€™re brought up to hate the world and the world hates you back, itâ€™s a self-reinforcing circuit that only the family can understand. Maybe itâ€™s like being brought up in a circus troupe, but your family business is preaching hate instead of, say, juggling. The kids seem to love the attention that comes with the public performance of protesting, and they have the serene certainty of the God-fearing and the brainwashed. I ask their mother if these sorts of family field trips could be considered a form of child abuse. She gloweredâ€”and then started yelling in another direction.
For New Yorkers, debate is a both a sport and a pastime, and several fellow city dwellers come in to take their own shots at the Phelps-Ropers. Outside Cronkiteâ€™s funeral, one woman leans in and begins her objections by saying â€œI am a Christianâ€¦â€ but she is swiftly cut off. â€œNo, youâ€™re not,â€ says Shirley. Another questioner is dismissed as â€œa rebellious Jewâ€â€”apparently, his cufflinks gave his faith awayâ€”but he is offered the good news was that precisely 144,000 Jews will be saved by the spirit before the rapture, which is coming with a vengeance any day.
Itâ€™s an old saying that â€œwhen you argue with a fool, you have two fools,â€ and the cult-like pathology of this family is far beyond normal domestic debates about politics or ideology or even theology. Itâ€™s not interesting as much as it is soul sickening to see children who were born innocent be so happily brainwashed, like those poor Palestinian preschoolers forced to watch a costumed Hamas mouse espouse the glory of murder and martyrdom. The profound weirdnessâ€”the banality of their homespun evilâ€”becomes even starker when the time comes to pack up after the protest is over. The God Hates Fags.com T-shirt is covered up with a windbreaker. The â€œCronkite in Hellâ€ and â€œAmerica is Doomedâ€ signs are dutifully put away by the kids into a black carrying case. In the end, they look like a family on their way to the mall.
As they pile their bags into the back of a taxicab to go back to Kansas, I ask if they are happy to believe that America is going to be destroyed. â€œYeah, we are happy,â€ says Megan. â€œItâ€™s the judgment of God.â€
There are no words for how much I despise these people.
8 thoughts on “Family of Hate”
While it’s nice to see freedom of speech being used so enthusiastically, it’s disturbing that there’s nothing that can be done legally to make them shut the fuck up.
IIRC, there’s a group of bikers that will show up when possible to drown these idiots out.
I almost typed out what you said word for word (‘cept the biker part, which is cool), but free speech is the law of the land, and people like that are the price we pay for it.
I remember someone talking about this on TEDtv, Its a memetic virus. An idea that just spreads.
I’m filled with sadness when I read about these people. Oh and a few of my brain cells die too.
It fills me w/ both sadness and anger when I read about these people. I don’t understand the mind that thinks like that.
It’s impossible to understand the minds of brainwashed hate filled people.
I’ve heard a rumor that it’s all just one family here, not a whole lot of converts to their cause.
I think it’s less than 100 people total, and yea, mostly family, by blood or marriage.